While You Were Busy: The Danger of Secondary Things
Base Text: 1 Kings 20:40 "And as your servant was busy here and there, he was gone..."
INTRODUCTION
The Trap of the "Good" vs. the "Essential" In the biblical context of our base text, a man was entrusted with a prisoner of war, but because he got distracted by "one thing and another," his charge vanished. This is a tragic picture of many modern lives. We are often so occupied with a multitude of activities—many of them good or necessary—that we end up neglecting the most vital aspects of our existence.
The Illusion of Time We often live as though we have an infinite supply of time, focusing on the material and the secondary. However, the Bible warns us in Ecclesiastes 3:1–8 that there is a season for everything. When we use the wrong season for the wrong thing, the consequences are not just regrettable; they can be eternal.
I. BUSYNESS THAT NEGLECTS THE FAMILY
The first place where "busyness" causes destruction is within the walls of our own homes.
• Neglecting Leadership: God appointed the man as the head of the home (Ephesians 5:23). When a man is too busy to lead, provide spiritual direction, or protect his family, he fails in a role for which he will eventually give an account to God.
• Neglecting the Marriage: Under the weight of work and exhaustion, many couples fail to render the affection and duty they owe one another (1 Corinthians 7:3). A marriage cannot survive on "leftover" time.
• Neglecting the Children: Parents are commanded to train and discipline their children (Ephesians 6:1–4). Today, many children grow up as "spiritual orphans" because their parents are too busy to know their friends, their struggles, or their hearts.
• The Mother's Role: When the home is neglected because of outside preoccupations, the foundation of the family begins to crumble (Titus 2:5), often leading to broken marriages and lost generations.
Personal Reflection: Money can buy things, but it cannot buy back the years you lost being "busy" while your children were growing up.
II. BUSYNESS THAT HINDERS THE WORK OF THE LORD
We seem to have time for hobbies, entertainment, and extra shifts at work, but almost never for the Kingdom of God.
• No Time for the Great Commission: Evangelism is often treated as an "if I have time" activity rather than a command (Matthew 28:19). We offer excuses of tiredness, but Jesus worked from early morning until late at night to save the lost (Mark 1:32, 35). We must preach "in season and out of season" (2 Timothy 4:2).
• No Time for One Another: We are too busy to warn the unruly, comfort the faint-hearted, or uphold the weak (1 Thessalonians 5:14). We are too busy to visit the sick, which the Bible defines as "pure religion" (James 1:27).
• No Time for the Word: Like Martha, we are "worried and troubled about many things," while Mary chose the "one thing" that was needful (Lucas 10:38–42). The Bereans made time daily to search the Scriptures (Acts 17:11).
• No Time for the Assembly: Many allow personal activities to crowd out the Lord's Day, forgetting the warning in Hebrews 10:23–31 that neglecting the congregation is a dangerous step toward spiritual falling.
III. BUSYNESS THAT ENDANGERS THE SOUL
The ultimate tragedy of being "busy here and there" is that while we are occupied with the world, our soul may slip away.
• The Incalculable Value of the Soul: Jesus asked, "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?" (Matthew 16:26). You cannot buy back your soul with the wealth you were too "busy" to stop earning.
• The Priority of the Kingdom: Life does not consist in the abundance of possessions (Luke 12:15). God promises that if we seek first His Kingdom, He will take care of our physical needs (Matthew 6:33; Psalm 37:25).
• A Great Salvation: God has already done His part. He sent His Son. Now, the responsibility lies with us. We will not escape if we neglect so great a salvation because we were too busy with the trivialities of this life (Hebrews 2:3).
See Also
- Why We Must Not Fear Man Matthew 10:28
- The Names of Satan and His Actions: What Satan Can and Cannot Do? 1 Peter 5:8
- The Consequences of David’s Sin with Bathsheba 2 Samuel 11:1–5
CONCLUSION
It is time to wake up. The clock is ticking, and the Lord is returning. We must "redeem the time" because the days are evil (Ephesians 5:14–17).
Don't let it be said of you at the end of your life: "While I was busy with this and that... my soul, my family, and my ministry were gone." Watch, pray, and prioritize what truly matters (Mark 13:33–37).











