The Power of Influence
Base Text: Matthew 5:14–16
Introduction
A. Defining Influence: Influence is the ripple effect of our lives. It is the action or impact we have on others through our example, our words, and our personal conduct.
B. An Unavoidable Reality: Every Christian exerts influence, whether they intend to or not. Jesus was clear when He declared: “You are the light of the world.” We are called to shine in the midst of darkness (Mt. 5:14–16).
C. The Direction of Impact: Our influence is never neutral. It either draws people toward salvation or, unfortunately, pushes them further away from God. The direction is determined by the testimony of our daily lives.
D. Message Overview: Today, we will explore:
1. The necessity of exerting a godly influence.
2. Biblical examples of positive impact.
3. Warnings regarding the negative influences we must reject.
E. Our Prayer: May God help us to be instruments of salvation through a life of genuine piety.
I. The Christian Must Exert a Good Influence
God demands that our conduct serves as a living testimony to those around us.
A. The Influence of Parents (Deuteronomy 6:6–9)
God commanded parents to instruct their children diligently. Spiritual influence begins at home, not at church.
• Application: What example are we setting for our children regarding faithfulness, church attendance, and obedience to God?
B. Salt and Light (Matthew 5:13–16; 1 Peter 2:11–12)
In a world that is spiritually decaying and dark, the Christian acts as salt (to preserve and flavor) and light (to guide). Our conduct among non-believers must be irreproachable so that they may see our good works and glorify God.
C. The Discipled and the Teacher (Luke 6:40)
Jesus taught that a disciple, when fully trained, will be like his teacher. We must be careful about who we follow and even more careful about how we lead.
D. The Unbelieving Spouse (1 Corinthians 7:14, 16; 1 Peter 3:1–2)
A godly life has the power to win over an unconverted spouse without a word, simply through the quiet beauty of a Christ-like character.
II. Biblical Examples of Positive Influence
The Bible introduces us to men and women who changed the course of others' lives through their faithfulness.
• David and Solomon (1 Kings 3:3): Solomon loved the Lord because he followed the statutes of his father, David. A father’s devotion paved the way for a son’s wisdom.
• Asa and his Son (1 Kings 22:42–44): Asa’s consistent walk helped his son stay on the right path. Good examples provide a map for the next generation.
• Elijah and Elisha (2 Chronicles 2:9): Elisha desired a "double portion" of Elijah’s spirit because he saw in Elijah an example worth imitating.
• Jesus and His Disciples (John 13:34–35; Acts 10:38): Jesus is our ultimate model. He went about doing good, leaving us a pattern of sacrificial love.
• Paul and the Church (1 Corinthians 11:1): Paul could boldly say, “Be imitators of me,” because his life was a clear reflection of Christ.
III. Bad Influences We Must Avoid
Just as there is power to build up, there is power to tear down. We must be vigilant against destructive influences.
A. The Company We Keep (Proverbs 22:24–25; 1 Corinthians 15:33)
Scripture warns: “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins good morals.’” If we walk with the angry or the foolish, we will eventually learn their ways.
B. Destructive Relationships
• Eve and Adam (Genesis 3:6): A misplaced influence led to the fall of humanity.
• Jonadab and Amnon (2 Samuel 13:3–5): A "crafty" friend gave evil advice that led to a devastating sin.
• The Wives of Solomon (1 Kings 11:2–6): Even the wisest man was led astray in his old age by those closest to him.
• Jezabel and Ahab (1 Kings 21:25): There was no one like Ahab who sold himself to do evil, urged on by his wife.
C. Foolish Counsel and Blind Guides
• The Young Men and Rehoboam (1 Kings 12:6–15): He rejected the wisdom of the elders to follow the reckless influence of his peers, splitting a kingdom.
• Jeroboam and Manasseh (2 Kings 17:21; 21:9): Leaders who dragged an entire nation into idolatry.
• The Pharisees (Matthew 15:12–14): Jesus called them "blind guides." Their influence led people into religious error rather than truth.
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Conclusion
A. The Call: God is calling you to be a beacon of hope for your children, your family, your church, and your community.
B. The Choice: We must intentionally flee from negative influences and cling to those who walk in piety. There are people we must stop following and examples we must start imitating.
C. Final Reflection: * What is the "flavor" of the influence you are exerting today?
• Are people closer to Jesus because they know you, or are they further away?
D. The Promise: Let us strive to be a positive influence for the glory of God, knowing that He sees and rewards our faithfulness.











